I agree that being too skinny is bad too emkay, any extreme end is very bad on a medical level.
I love women with curves to a point, and I had a friend in the military who liked very big girls, we all have our own desires and this is part of what makes life great in my opinion.
My only issue I was wanting to discuss is how each of us feel when we look at the obviously way, way over weight person. I shared my only real negative reaction is things like I offered before, like seeing a fat belly sticking out below their clothing, if you must be extremely fat, at least wear clothing that covers up stuff like that any normal person would not want to see.
The irresponsible part was not so much about the food itself but more about the addicted person going to a place intentionally when they know they can't control themselves. Consider it like an alcoholic going to bars or a sex addict going to whore houses.
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On a personal note, I find it pretty disturbing that so many of those who should have loved you actually treated you that way. Calling you fat is not how you help someone if you think they are getting to an unhealthy weight. Maybe they just did not know any better but it seems more likely that kind of thing would make you more prone to greater depressions and more overeating.
Well for what it is worth, all that strife and hard times has resulted in you being a very pretty and healthy looking women emkay, a steel sword is forged in fire and hammered on an anvil before it reaches it's beauty of form and power of strength
